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Put Away Your Phone. Really. You & It Won’t Die.
Tempting as it is to check your Blackberry or iPhone (or whatever phone you have) all the time, you’ll just wreck your own head and be distracted. It’s better to be focused. Give full attention when you’re doing activities and it’s a lot easier to do chores if you’re not reading tweets… I have phone breaks throughout the day and it really doesn’t feel like I’m getting the DT’s.
Plan Activities
I have a box of activity stuff plus they have the Gironomo tent (a playhouse) which they both love hanging out in and we have storytime moments dotted throughout the day. Use the time to get down to their level and play with them, but likewise, if they’re occupied, you can get some work done. Get out of the house as well – you’ll get cabin fever otherwise! I highly recommend Kids Craft Weekly for inspiration – subscribe to their newsletters which are themed and often just require stuff you probably have lying around.
Ask for Help
Seriously, the sky won’t fall down because if you don’t ask, people assume you’re managing fine until you explode in a tirade. Don’t get sucked into that mindset of ‘People should know that I need help’ because these same people may think you’ll just do stuff in your usual superwoman ways. Lean on relatives or ask a friend if they can take yours and you’ll take hers on another day. Obviously don’t take the mick!
Put on your Autoresponse
This is basically your Out of Office setting. Tell them you’re on a ‘reduced schedule’ or whatever is appropriate. This manages people’s expectations, tells them you’re ‘away’, and prevents you from feeling the urge to read and respond to all mails immediately. Don’t become a slave to email because you’ll get ground down by it. Don’t be afraid to say that you respond to email in bulk – Timothy Ferriss, author of the 4-Hour Work Week responds to emails once a week for a few hours. Way less stressful than responding to every ‘ping’.
Pre-write information and instructions
Write an FAQ page and link to this on your autoresponses, your contact page etc. If you regularly get emails asking about the same stuff, include this on your FAQ, or have prewritten emails/PDF’s that you can quickly bung across in the mail. This not only saves them time, it saves you time.
Keep It Simple
One thing that’s come out of the past few weeks is streamlining and making things as simple as possible. For example, online invoicing system Freshbooks means I turn around an invoice in less than five minutes leaving me no excuse to put things off. I even have the iPhone app and it links up to online accounting systems like Kashflow.
Get chores out of the way whilst the kids run amok
I do wonder about my logic sometimes but I’ve finally realised that tempting as it is to hang around on Twitter in the afternoon continue working, that getting dinner out of the way, along with other tedious chores is better than trying to do them all as soon as the kids go to bed and then looking up and seeing that it’s 9pm and you still have work to do.
Set up some space at the dining table for a little people’s office space
My 32 month old daughter will sit beside me and draw and do sticking which means that I can get some work done whilst she’s busy. Based on personal experience, I suggest you distance yourself from glitter… Little ones like pretending to work especially when they’re really honing their imaginative play skills.
Keep a List(s)
Over these past few weeks, I’ve found that things keep popping into my head. I have a few spots for jotting down notes and I put them together when I finally sit down to work. Toodledo is quite handy for storing them online – they also have an app for your phone. Mind you, good ‘ole notebook and pens work best for me!
Adjust & Manage Your Own Expectations
Every day I teach people about getting real over on my relationship blog Baggage Reclaim which means I need to take my own advice. Something has had to give over these past few weeks. I’m not superwoman, and highly recommend that you get real about what you can really expect from yourself output wise. If it’s a short-term thing, it’s a good idea to look at it like a break (anything you do is a bonus) and if it’s an ongoing thing make sure that you’re putting your energies where they are most needed – look at my previous post on time management with the kids at home and also on outsourcing. It’s easy to think that everything is essential but really look at what’s actually essential and time sensitive so that other stuff can be done when the kids are asleep or even at the weekend. Obviously the older your kids are, the more independent they get – toddlers and babies make a tricky mix to master!
photo credit: nate steiner
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